How to use the wedding budget calculator
- Enter your total budget and the number of guests.
- Adjust the share (%) for each category, rename them or add your own.
- Check that the shares add up to 100%, and look at the cost per guest.
A $30,000 wedding, category by category
| Category | Share | Amount |
|---|---|---|
| Venue & catering | 45% | $13,500 |
| Photography & video | 12% | $3,600 |
| Flowers & decor | 8% | $2,400 |
| Attire & beauty | 7% | $2,100 |
| Music & entertainment | 7% | $2,100 |
| Planner / coordinator | 5% | $1,500 |
| Rings | 3% | $900 |
| Invitations & stationery | 2% | $600 |
| Transportation | 2% | $600 |
| Favors & gifts | 2% | $600 |
| Buffer for surprises | 7% | $2,100 |
The biggest levers
- Guest count: venue and food scale with guests. Twenty fewer guests can save thousands.
- Date and day: off-season months and Fridays or Sundays often cost much less.
- Venue: all-inclusive venues can be cheaper than renting a space and hiring every vendor separately.
- Priorities: pick your top two or three categories and spend there; trim the rest.
Hidden costs to plan for
Service charges and tax on catering (often 20%+), vendor tips, alterations, marriage license, hair and makeup trials, postage, and vendor meals. The buffer exists for these.
A simple planning timeline
- 12+ months out: set the total budget and guest list, decide who is contributing, and book the venue, which sets the date.
- 9–12 months: book photographer, caterer if separate, and music; these good vendors fill up first.
- 6–9 months: attire, florist, invitations design, and a planner or day-of coordinator if you want one.
- 3–6 months: send invitations, order rings, plan transport and favors.
- Final month: confirm numbers with every vendor, pay final balances, and prepare tips in labeled envelopes.
Track deposits and due dates as you go. Most vendors take a deposit at booking and the balance a week or two before the wedding, so the money has to be ready earlier than the date itself.
How to save for it
Work out the monthly amount with the savings goal calculator: $20,000 in 18 months is about $1,100 a month. Keep the money in a separate high-yield account, or a CD if the date is fixed; see CD vs high-yield savings. A fun way to build part of it: the 100 envelope challenge saves $5,050. Then fit the monthly saving into your monthly budget.
Keep the wedding fund on track
Nest is a savings tracker with goals, target dates and a weekly amount for each, so the wedding fund grows on schedule. Vault keeps the budget and bills in view while you plan. Both have a free demo with sample data.
Frequently asked questions
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Written by
Finance Specialist & Editor, VaultlyApps
Emma Whitfield writes and edits the VaultlyApps money guides and free calculators. Her focus is US household finance — budgeting on a real paycheck, paying down credit card and student debt, emergency funds and savings goals, renting — and the money side of freelancing and small-business income, from pricing and profit margins to self-employment tax. Every guide is researched against primary sources such as IRS publications and the CFPB, every number is checked in our tested calculators, and tax content is reviewed each year when new IRS figures come out. Emma is not a licensed financial adviser or tax preparer; her work is general education, not personal advice.
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